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Plain answers before you have to decide anything

Written for the two people who read this site: the person staying in their home, and the adult child worrying about them from another city. No jargon, no scare tactics.

Paying for care

How much does home care cost in Victoria, BC? A 2026 guide

Real hourly rates for non-medical companion care in Greater Victoria, what actually moves the price, and how private care fits alongside publicly funded home support.

2026-01-14 · 6 min read

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Family conversations

10 signs it is time for help at home

The quiet signals that an ageing parent could use support — physical, practical, and emotional — and what to do when several of them appear together.

2026-01-28 · 7 min read

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Downsizing & moving

Preparing a parent for a smaller home: a family checklist

A gentle, room-by-room plan for downsizing an ageing parent's home — starting with the conversation, not the boxes.

2026-02-11 · 8 min read

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Downsizing & moving

Downsizing a parent's home: a 90-day plan before the sale

When the house is going on the market, the timeline works backwards from the listing date. Here is a realistic week-by-week plan to run with your realtor.

2026-02-25 · 7 min read

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Paying for care

Subsidised home support vs private care in BC: the real difference

How publicly funded home support works in British Columbia, what private care adds, and why most families end up sensibly combining the two.

2026-03-10 · 6 min read

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Home care

Choosing a companion for an ageing parent: what to ask any agency

Agencies are not interchangeable, and the differences rarely show up in the marketing. These are the questions that reveal them.

2026-03-24 · 6 min read

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Downsizing & moving

Moving a parent to Victoria from another city: a step-by-step plan

A long-distance move is not just a change of address — it is a change of city, doctors, and daily life. Here is how to sequence it.

2026-04-07 · 7 min read

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Downsizing & moving

What to do with the things your parents will not part with

Every downsizing family meets the room that cannot be sorted. It is not stubbornness — and there are gentler ways through it.

2026-04-21 · 5 min read

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Around Greater Victoria

Home care in Saanich, Oak Bay and Esquimalt: what differs by area

Greater Victoria is not one market. Distances, clinics, and the pace of life change from neighbourhood to neighbourhood — and so does the practical shape of care.

2026-05-05 · 5 min read

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Family conversations

Talking to a parent about moving, without triggering resistance

Probably the hardest conversation in this whole subject — harder than the logistics and harder than the money. How to begin it well.

2026-05-19 · 6 min read

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Coming soon to the library

  • Dementia at home: small changes that make a large difference
  • Hospital discharge in Victoria: the first two weeks at home
  • Staying safe on the stairs: a practical home safety walk-through

Free family checklist — coming soon

We are preparing a one-page PDF: Twelve questions to work through as a family before starting support for a parent. It will be free, no email form required to browse this site in the meantime.

Want to be told when it is ready? Call or email us and mention the checklist — we will add you to the list.

Reading is a good start. Talking is faster.

If an article raised a specific question about your family, a ten-minute call usually answers it better than another hour of searching.